I loved and tomorrow I will recover from abusive relationships.

One of the forms of abuse in a marital relationship with a narcissist and abuser is a life of sacred betrayal. This is when the abuser uses the excuse of seeking a second wife to justify his whims. It begins with the man’s lust and addiction to novelty, coupled with a sense of abundance and financial stability. Sometimes, this occurs without that abundance, in a state of complex illusions of “lust and poverty.” Then, the man begins to search for a justification through which to pursue his obsessions, channeling his obsessions of novelty and desire. He sees his whims as a right, and his wife’s pain as an exaggeration and an infringement on a right granted to him by God, as he sees it. Polygamy is used as a justification and umbrella for its practice. Those who object or refuse to submit and reject this unfair zero-sum equation, which is protected by Sharia law, and see it as simply not a mandatory law or an enforceable order, but rather a license or permission that remains subject to will and choice, are then accused of rejecting divine wisdom and distorting their ideas with feminist filth. The abuser then dons his cloak and robe, and the scars of his sacred battles and enlightened struggle appear on his face, making his whims appear as a divine plan. Passing on the symptoms of his illness appears to be a form of jihad and worship. At this stage, the abuser begins to focus on surrounding examples of betrayals and relationships that occurred outside of marriage, bringing them into the realm of discussion and understanding for his partner: “So-and-so is cheating on his wife. Have you seen the so-and-so movie?” This exposes the dark side of extramarital relationships, the undeniable evil of which no one can deny.